Mary Aloia is a student studying the public relations program at Humber Lakeshore.
Posted on Tuesday, October 6th at 1:00pm.
As a woman who is seeking love, do you ever wish there was a magical way to make guys love and stay with you?
This is for all the ladies who have had a hard time finding love and keeping it, the ones who put all of their time and effort into trying to make something out of nothing work. I hope that after reading this, all the numerous broken hearts, and promises you faced will come to an end. These four steps will not only keep you from never having a broken heart again. They will show you how to have true love and happiness in a relationship with your man.
Despite popular belief, there is no manual or how-to guide on keeping your man. “Maybe I should change my air…ya that will make him love me.” “Maybe If I don’t call him for a week he’ll care about me.” All of these tips and tricks are useless tools that we consume our brains with that are only successful for a short amount of time. Before you know it Mr. you thought was right will go onto something new.
Consider my steps to be more of a life lesson to all of you. So read closely, they may not be what you were expecting.
Step 1: Look Good
Let your confidence be your best accessory, if you’re happy with yourself and let your personality shine, no amount of makeup or expensive clothes will beat that. Your confidence is the most attractive thing a woman could have and when guys see that, they are charmed. All women are beautiful, its our job to show that to the world that.
Feel comfortable in you own skin: Refer to this article for more info on building your confidence.
Step 2: Don’t be clingy
Typical male ideology is that clingy women are not attractive. For that, they are right; a woman with no interest in anything else except someone else is not a desirable characteristic. The energy spent focusing on their significant other needs to avert to themselves. That means, get hobbies, develop a five-year plan with goals and accomplish them. Having a well-balanced life will allow work, health and especially your love life to get better. At the end of the day it is your own life to live, no one else’s. A real man will appreciate a woman who is smart and successful with a life of her own.
Taking a yoga class is a good start and might help take your mind off a lot of things.
Step 3: Treat him like gold
Buying him everything he wants and adhering to his needs is the way to his head, not his heart. I want you to show you care, take interests in his interests. Be a good listener who is willing to go on adventures with him. Take a sentimental pathway as opposed to the materialistic shortcut most people take.
Click below for some creative tips to show your love for someone. http://tinybuddha.com/blog/50-ways-to-show-you-care-without-spending-a-dime/
Step 4: Happiness is key
This is the most important step; a thorough understanding is required in order for your relationship to last. It’s very simple, be happy. No one is capable of love without happiness, but everyone is capable of happiness. Happiness is a two-way street, which means you need to be happy in order to have the ability to make someone else happy. Both you and your partner need to thrive and commit to making each other happy.
Click below to see how this woman obtained a happy and healthy relationship. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jennifer-twardowski/how-i-manifested-a-happy-_b_7075930.html
I hope I was able to give a bit more insight into obtaining a happy long lasting relationship. My goal was to show you how most women struggle with the same problems and it is important to share any solutions we believe will work. I used to feel the same way about love; I felt hopeless and alone. It wasn’t until I met a guy who not only was able to love me for the true me, but helped me develop to be a better person. I never cared or thought about my future career, family and companion. He showed me how imperative these thoughts were in order to live a happier life. I am confident you will apply these four steps not only to better yourself but your relationship as well. Be yourself, love yourself, and then love someone as much as you love yourself.
Men have a hard time realizing the struggles women go through and if they don’t take the time to, then maybe they’re not worth it. Do you consider yourself a smart independent woman? Because if you do and can’t find a man do you ever think maybe you don’t need a man to complete you?
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